Thriving After Trauma: Stories of Living and Healing
Autor Shari Botwin Cuvânt înainte de Rosemarie Aquilinaen Limba Engleză Hardback – 4 noi 2019
Often, those who live through trauma come away with feelings of shame, guilt, anger, and despair. These are common, even normal, responses in the immediate aftermath. Left unaddressed, though, those feelings may develop into substance abuse problems, eating disorders, depression, or anxiety. Learning how to move on, to pick up and live life again, takes effort and guidance. Botwin guides readers through the stories of others who have gone on to live fulfilling, happy lives, and provides tips and tools for healing and moving on.
Letting go of the shame, guilt, anger and fear associated with tragic events is crucial to reclaiming a full life. Strategies such as, journaling, mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral restructuring, and healthy relationships to aid in recovery are explored and explained, so readers can adopt those strategies that work best for them.
It is not the trauma itself that results in so many people developing self-destructive tendencies and life threatening illnesses. It is the lack of having a way to digest and make sense of the trauma-related feelings that can lead one to mental illness, disconnection, and in some cases, even death. Readers will learn how to live with the trauma versus how to get over the trauma, so they can move forward healthfully and mindfully.
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Specificații
ISBN-13: 9781538125601
ISBN-10: 1538125609
Pagini: 200
Dimensiuni: 145 x 225 x 25 mm
Greutate: 0.32 kg
Editura: Bloomsbury Publishing
Colecția Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Locul publicării:New York, United States
ISBN-10: 1538125609
Pagini: 200
Dimensiuni: 145 x 225 x 25 mm
Greutate: 0.32 kg
Editura: Bloomsbury Publishing
Colecția Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Locul publicării:New York, United States
Cuprins
Foreword: Stories of Living and Healing
Dr. Jo Anne White
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1 Trauma Defined
What Is Trauma?
Posttraumatic Stress Emerges
Trauma Goes Public
2 Facing the Trauma
Telling Your Story
Staying Grounded
Managing Flashbacks
Healing Strategies When Facing Your Trauma
Managing Flashbacks
3 How the Road Unravels When a Witness Is Present
Living Life without Re-creating Trauma
Learning to Trust Yourself and Others
Good-Bye Guilt
Banishing Shame
Healing Strategies to Rebuild Trust, Reduce Guilt, and Alleviate Shame
4 Confronting Anger
Hello, Anger
Conquering Anger
Healing Strategies to Greet Anger
Healing Strategies for Using Anger to Conquer Your World
5 Staying Present
Karen: Letting Go of Her Abuser
Mary: Letting Go of the Loss of Her Youngest Brother When She Was a Kid
Debbie: The Struggle to Let Go of a Lost Childhood
Brian: Letting Go of Being the Rescuer after Growing Up with Loss and Poverty
Healing Strategies to Let Go of the Past
6 Taking Time to Grieve
So Long Eating Disorder, Alcohol, or Drugs
Grieving with Others
Misconceptions about Grief and Grieving According to Helpguide.org
Healing Strategies for Coping with Loss and Grief after Trauma
Nurturing Your Hurt Self
7 Reaping the Benefits of Your Recovery
Greeting Intimacy
No More Fear
Trusting Love
Healing Strategies as You Reap the Benefits of Your Recovery
8 My Life in Recovery
Letting Go of the Wish
On Becoming a Mom
Going Public with My Story
Healing Strategies I Used during My Recovery
9 Survivor Testimonials
Jennifer Fox: Emmy- and Golden Globe-Nominated Director of the Film The Tale
Karen's Story: Suicide of Her Boyfriend
Tamie's Testimonial: Therapist, Eating Disorder Survivor, Life-Altering Back Injury
Janice's Story: Sexual Assault Survivor
Tyler
Notes
Resources
Treatment Facilities for Overcoming Eating Disorders, Addictions, and Trauma
Outpatient Trauma Programs
Resources for More Information or to Find a Therapist
Bibliography
Index
About the Author
Dr. Jo Anne White
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1 Trauma Defined
What Is Trauma?
Posttraumatic Stress Emerges
Trauma Goes Public
2 Facing the Trauma
Telling Your Story
Staying Grounded
Managing Flashbacks
Healing Strategies When Facing Your Trauma
Managing Flashbacks
3 How the Road Unravels When a Witness Is Present
Living Life without Re-creating Trauma
Learning to Trust Yourself and Others
Good-Bye Guilt
Banishing Shame
Healing Strategies to Rebuild Trust, Reduce Guilt, and Alleviate Shame
4 Confronting Anger
Hello, Anger
Conquering Anger
Healing Strategies to Greet Anger
Healing Strategies for Using Anger to Conquer Your World
5 Staying Present
Karen: Letting Go of Her Abuser
Mary: Letting Go of the Loss of Her Youngest Brother When She Was a Kid
Debbie: The Struggle to Let Go of a Lost Childhood
Brian: Letting Go of Being the Rescuer after Growing Up with Loss and Poverty
Healing Strategies to Let Go of the Past
6 Taking Time to Grieve
So Long Eating Disorder, Alcohol, or Drugs
Grieving with Others
Misconceptions about Grief and Grieving According to Helpguide.org
Healing Strategies for Coping with Loss and Grief after Trauma
Nurturing Your Hurt Self
7 Reaping the Benefits of Your Recovery
Greeting Intimacy
No More Fear
Trusting Love
Healing Strategies as You Reap the Benefits of Your Recovery
8 My Life in Recovery
Letting Go of the Wish
On Becoming a Mom
Going Public with My Story
Healing Strategies I Used during My Recovery
9 Survivor Testimonials
Jennifer Fox: Emmy- and Golden Globe-Nominated Director of the Film The Tale
Karen's Story: Suicide of Her Boyfriend
Tamie's Testimonial: Therapist, Eating Disorder Survivor, Life-Altering Back Injury
Janice's Story: Sexual Assault Survivor
Tyler
Notes
Resources
Treatment Facilities for Overcoming Eating Disorders, Addictions, and Trauma
Outpatient Trauma Programs
Resources for More Information or to Find a Therapist
Bibliography
Index
About the Author
Recenzii
This book can be a kickstarter for anyone not ready or willing to tell/share their "trauma" story -- or for those working on processing their own trauma. Highly recommend.
Everyone who has endured trauma, or has a loved-one in trauma recovery, will benefit from the exceptional exploration, insight, and common-sense approach of Shari Botwin, the once victimized author, who now catapults other victims, not just into surviving, but thriving by regaining control, knowing they matter and having a voice. An important, healing, hopeful read.
A beautifully-written, inspirational account of courage and resilience, Thriving After Trauma is a book I will recommend again and again!
Shari makes use of her unique and incredible journey to show the world what it truly means to be a survivor and masterfully uses that insight, as well as the accounts of other amazing survivors, to guide those who are suffering now on their own paths to surviving. Shari's narrative will give others strength through her deeply personal and traumatic but ultimately inspirational story of overcoming tragedy. Her tireless efforts to help others overcome seemingly impossible obstacles truly shines through the pages.
Shari Botwin brings her passion and hard-won wisdom to a deeply complex subject. The ways trauma manifests are as varied and unique as the person whose experience she describes. Ms. Botwin has done a masterful job of weaving her patients' stories, her story, her skill as a therapist and her power as an activist into a readable, compelling work. She paints intimate, compassionate portraits of the devastation caused by trauma and the careful and deliberate process of healing. Her message of hope for living fully comes alive on every page.
As the collective understanding and acceptance of the impact of psychological trauma exploded in recent years, Shari Botwin was at the public forefront narrating it in newspapers and TV. Now she brings it all together in a series of real life accounts of despair and how to overcome it. Sharing her gift of translating the language and culture of psychological trauma to plain English, Botwin, a survivor herself, blends her personal anguish with the painful experience of others she counseled through the years. At its finest points this book not only informs but opens the soul.
As a survivor of childhood abuse, Shari Botwin brings a deep understanding and empathy to traumatized folks lucky enough to have crossed paths with her - either in her writings, her workshops, her talks, or her individual therapy sessions. I was a domestic abuse victim until Shari guided me as I worked to become first a domestic abuse survivor and now a domestic abuse thriver. Readers of this book will learn that they are not alone as they meet some of Shari's patients who have experienced trauma and worked to overcome it. Moreover, each chapter ends with ideas readers can use on their own journey to living a full life unencumbered by the residue of the trauma that has followed them like a shadow through their lives. No matter how long ago the trauma occurred, you can begin today to reclaim your right to happiness and fulfillment.
Thriving After Trauma pulled at my heartstrings as this author brought such authenticity to life throughout this book. The true stories of her patients, as well as herself, give the reader a deep view into the world of those who struggle after trauma and abuse. The techniques and educational value of this read will be a great help to many people out there who continue to struggle alone. Embrace the Journey!
Shari has delicately woven together the nuances of treating trauma. Through examples from patient stories and the impacts of our shared cultural traumas, she provides strategies to effectively manage PTSD symptoms and guides the reader to understand how deep healing from horrific experiences can occur.
Shari's book was a blessing to my survivor life. She immediately drew me and kept hold of me throughout the entire read. I loved how she so skillfully intertwined her own story with the story of others and how she used her gift of being a helper of the suffering to show us all that any and every emotion can stop to visit trauma survivors and that each one of them is normal.
"It is in speaking and understanding that people can go from surviving to thriving after trauma."
Yes! When we speak and are heard we heal. When we speak and understand our own-selves as well as others, we heal. When we give ourselves room to speak our truth we truly learn how to thrive and not merely survive.
It is my honor to know this brilliant, compassionate, talented lady and I highly recommend this read!
Shari Botwin's book is a must-read for trauma survivors. She weaves her expertise as a mental health professional with her personal story of trauma to provide a compelling "how to" for healing. Thriving After Trauma is a powerful testament to the human ability to heal from trauma, however long and difficult the road may be. Her authentic story of reclaiming her life and becoming a fierce advocate for trauma survivors is revealing and empowering.
Shari Botwin has written the book I longed for after a violent rape left me without the ability to feel safe and calm. Thriving After Trauma gives hope to readers, changing the conversation that trauma inflicts permanent, unwavering damage. Botwin shows the pathway out of emotional chaos, back onto an even keel of emotional health. I recommend it highly.
Everyone who has endured trauma, or has a loved-one in trauma recovery, will benefit from the exceptional exploration, insight, and common-sense approach of Shari Botwin, the once victimized author, who now catapults other victims, not just into surviving, but thriving by regaining control, knowing they matter and having a voice. An important, healing, hopeful read.
A beautifully-written, inspirational account of courage and resilience, Thriving After Trauma is a book I will recommend again and again!
Shari makes use of her unique and incredible journey to show the world what it truly means to be a survivor and masterfully uses that insight, as well as the accounts of other amazing survivors, to guide those who are suffering now on their own paths to surviving. Shari's narrative will give others strength through her deeply personal and traumatic but ultimately inspirational story of overcoming tragedy. Her tireless efforts to help others overcome seemingly impossible obstacles truly shines through the pages.
Shari Botwin brings her passion and hard-won wisdom to a deeply complex subject. The ways trauma manifests are as varied and unique as the person whose experience she describes. Ms. Botwin has done a masterful job of weaving her patients' stories, her story, her skill as a therapist and her power as an activist into a readable, compelling work. She paints intimate, compassionate portraits of the devastation caused by trauma and the careful and deliberate process of healing. Her message of hope for living fully comes alive on every page.
As the collective understanding and acceptance of the impact of psychological trauma exploded in recent years, Shari Botwin was at the public forefront narrating it in newspapers and TV. Now she brings it all together in a series of real life accounts of despair and how to overcome it. Sharing her gift of translating the language and culture of psychological trauma to plain English, Botwin, a survivor herself, blends her personal anguish with the painful experience of others she counseled through the years. At its finest points this book not only informs but opens the soul.
As a survivor of childhood abuse, Shari Botwin brings a deep understanding and empathy to traumatized folks lucky enough to have crossed paths with her - either in her writings, her workshops, her talks, or her individual therapy sessions. I was a domestic abuse victim until Shari guided me as I worked to become first a domestic abuse survivor and now a domestic abuse thriver. Readers of this book will learn that they are not alone as they meet some of Shari's patients who have experienced trauma and worked to overcome it. Moreover, each chapter ends with ideas readers can use on their own journey to living a full life unencumbered by the residue of the trauma that has followed them like a shadow through their lives. No matter how long ago the trauma occurred, you can begin today to reclaim your right to happiness and fulfillment.
Thriving After Trauma pulled at my heartstrings as this author brought such authenticity to life throughout this book. The true stories of her patients, as well as herself, give the reader a deep view into the world of those who struggle after trauma and abuse. The techniques and educational value of this read will be a great help to many people out there who continue to struggle alone. Embrace the Journey!
Shari has delicately woven together the nuances of treating trauma. Through examples from patient stories and the impacts of our shared cultural traumas, she provides strategies to effectively manage PTSD symptoms and guides the reader to understand how deep healing from horrific experiences can occur.
Shari's book was a blessing to my survivor life. She immediately drew me and kept hold of me throughout the entire read. I loved how she so skillfully intertwined her own story with the story of others and how she used her gift of being a helper of the suffering to show us all that any and every emotion can stop to visit trauma survivors and that each one of them is normal.
"It is in speaking and understanding that people can go from surviving to thriving after trauma."
Yes! When we speak and are heard we heal. When we speak and understand our own-selves as well as others, we heal. When we give ourselves room to speak our truth we truly learn how to thrive and not merely survive.
It is my honor to know this brilliant, compassionate, talented lady and I highly recommend this read!
Shari Botwin's book is a must-read for trauma survivors. She weaves her expertise as a mental health professional with her personal story of trauma to provide a compelling "how to" for healing. Thriving After Trauma is a powerful testament to the human ability to heal from trauma, however long and difficult the road may be. Her authentic story of reclaiming her life and becoming a fierce advocate for trauma survivors is revealing and empowering.
Shari Botwin has written the book I longed for after a violent rape left me without the ability to feel safe and calm. Thriving After Trauma gives hope to readers, changing the conversation that trauma inflicts permanent, unwavering damage. Botwin shows the pathway out of emotional chaos, back onto an even keel of emotional health. I recommend it highly.