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The Thriving Child de William Stixrud

The Thriving Child

Autor William Stixrud, Ned Johnson
en Limba Engleză Paperback – 14 iun 2018

Ne așezăm adesea seara alături de copiii noștri, încercând să parcurgem împreună temele sau să planificăm ziua următoare, dar simțim cum tensiunea crește în loc să dispară. Descoperim în paginile volumului The Thriving Child că, uneori, cel mai valoros lucru pe care îl putem face ca părinți este să intervenim mai puțin. Scrisă de William Stixrud, neuropsiholog clinician, și Ned Johnson, expert în tehnici de învățare, această lucrare apărută la Penguin Books ne invită la o schimbare profundă de perspectivă: trecerea de la părintele care controlează totul la părintele care oferă autonomie. Subliniem faptul că această carte nu este doar un manifest teoretic, ci un ghid ancorat în date neuroștiințifice care explică de ce lipsa controlului este cel mai mare factor de stres pentru creierul în dezvoltare. Autorii ne arată cum micromanagementul vieții academice și sociale a copiilor poate duce la lipsă de motivație și anxietate. Copiii care au iubit The Yes Brain Child de Daniel J. Siegel vor găsi aici aceeași abordare empatică bazată pe funcționarea creierului, dar aplicată într-un context nou, axat pe independență și reziliență în fața presiunilor sociale moderne. Apreciem modul în care textul transformă concepte complexe în strategii practice pentru a schimba dinamica „sfidării” în „luare de decizii”. Spre deosebire de alte lucrări care se concentrează strict pe disciplină, The Thriving Child pune accent pe construirea unei relații de colaborare. Este un parcurs care ne învață să avem încredere în capacitatea copiilor noștri de a-și gestiona propriile vieți, oferindu-le instrumentele necesare pentru a deveni adulți echilibrați și auto-motivați.

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Specificații

ISBN-13: 9780241298107
ISBN-10: 0241298105
Pagini: 384
Dimensiuni: 150 x 231 x 29 mm
Greutate: 0.47 kg
Editura: Penguin Books
Locul publicării:London, United Kingdom

De ce să citești această carte

Recomandăm această carte părinților de adolescenți și preadolescenți care simt că presiunea pentru performanță afectează relația cu propriul copil. Veți câștiga o metodă concretă de a reduce stresul în familie și strategii pentru a-l ajuta pe copil să-și găsească motivația interioară. Este lectura ideală pentru a transforma rolul de „supraveghetor” într-unul de „consultant” de încredere, pregătindu-i pe tineri pentru succesul real, independent.

Despre autor

William Stixrud este un neuropsiholog clinician de renume, specializat în evaluarea copiilor cu dificultăți de învățare și stres. Ned Johnson este fondatorul unei agenții de tutorat de elită din Washington D.C., dedicat ajutării elevilor să depășească anxietatea legată de performanță. Împreună, cei doi cumulează peste șaizeci de ani de experiență în lucrul cu mii de copii și adolescenți. În continuarea ideilor din acest volum, aceștia au publicat și The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child, consolidându-și poziția de experți în educația bazată pe autonomie și reziliență emoțională.

Notă biografică

Dr William Stixrud PhD is a clinical neuropsychologist with more than 30 years' experience of private practice. Ned Johnson is the founder and Director of an elite tutoring company in Washington, DC.

Recenzii

Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do as parents is to parent our children a little less. This humane, thoughtful book turns the latest brain science into valuable practical advice for parents on how to pull back, when to engage and when to let go. Read it. Your children will thank you.
This serious and probing look at how to give our children the right kinds of independence shows us how much power we have to ensure they can function optimally. It is a book about how to make our children more meaningfully independent, and to set ourselves free in the process.
Compelling, revolutionary, and wise, The Thriving Child empowers parents with the courage, the tools, and the mindset to reduce toxic stress, and to foster our child's capacity for resilience, success, and optimal development. Its message-that we should trust kids to have more control over their own lives-is one every parent needs to hear.
The Thriving Child will guide parents to the sweet spot between helicopter and hands-off parenting. Stixrud and Johnson ground their clear and practical advice in cutting-edge research and years of experience working with young kids and teens. An invaluable resource for the thinking parent
Bill Stixrud, the pioneering neuropsychologist, and Ned Johnson, the test-prep guru, have written a battleplan to attack the anxiety that's devouring kids and decimating their native potential. This extraordinary book shines a light into the darkness of test dread, chronic sleeplessness, 24/7 social-media 'beauty pageants' and the full array of stress-induced forces that undermine children. But Stixrud and Johnson do more than identify the demons -- they slay them. Read this incisive, witty, deeply-researched book and help your child bend toward the sunlight of learning and self-directed joy. A must read.
Stixrud and Johnson combine science and compassion to make the case that parental over-control is eroding our kids' confidence, competence and mental health. Accessible, compelling and richly researched, The Thriving Child reveals the clear links between the stressses of competitive schooling and the anxiety and depression that are so widespread in kids today. This urgently-needed book has the potential to revolutionize the way we parent.
If you still have questions about whether or not excessive pressure and a narrow version of success are truly harming our children, The Thriving Child is an absolute must-read. While most books on the impact of stress on child development offer anecdotes and clinical examples, Stixrud and Johnson make it clear that it is now research that explains why kids don't thrive under our current priorities. A healthy child needs a healthy brain. Not only do they produce the evidence that shows why unremitting achievement pressure is toxic to our children, they also show us what the alternative would look like. It is not an overstatement to say that this is one of the most radical and important books on raising healthy, resilient, purpose-driven kids.
Stixrud and Johnson provide compassionate, well-supported suggestions and strategies for parents to help their kids deal with ever-more-competitive academics and extracurriculars By studying the levels of stress and motivation in children, the authors discovered that 'a low sense of control is enormously stressful and that autonomy is the key to developing motivation.' Stixrud and Johnson theorize that a sense of control is the 'antidote to stress,' touching on common stressors for American kids, such as social media, demanding homework, and lack of sleep . . . The authors make a highly persuasive case for how parents can help their children segue from feeling stressed and powerless to feeling loved, trusted, and supported.
Stixrud and Johnson provide in-depth information on how to give your child more control without letting them run amok, discuss ways to reduce parents' stress levels, and emphasize the importance of physical exercise and sufficient sleep. . . . Timeless advice for parents.
If there's one book I'd recommend to parents who are raising children of all ages - this is the book
Important and timely. . . An essential book for parents and educators everywhere.

Descriere scurtă

** Published in the U.S. as The Self-Driven Child**

A hands-off parenting guide to nurture independent thinking and collaboration for happier, smarter and stress-free kids.
'Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do as parents is to parent our children a little less. This humane, thoughtful book turns the latest brain science into valuable practical advice for parents on how to pull back, when to engage and when to let go. Read it. Your children will thank you.' Paul Tough, New York Times bestselling author of How Children Succeed
As parents we all want the best for our child, but so often we give in to societal pressures which can result in us over-managing every aspect of their lives leaving them overwhelmed, over-scheduled and lacking motivation. This can terrifyingly lead to mental health problems as adolescents and adults. How can we prevent this happening to our child?
Over their combined sixty years of practice, William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist, and Ned Johnson, the founder of an elite tutoring agency, have worked with thousands of children all facing this problem. Together they discovered that the best antidote to stress is to give kids more of a sense of control over their lives. In this ground-breaking book they reveal how you can actively help your child to sculpt a brain that is resilient, stress-proof and ready to take on new challenges.
The Thriving Child offers a combination of cutting-edge brain science, the latest discoveries in behavioural therapy, and case studies drawn from the thousands of kids and teens Bill and Ned have helped over the years. They will teach you how to set your child on the real road to success and share their successful techniques to show you the best ways of helping your child to:
· Reduce their stress and anxiety
· Foster independent thinking
· Find their internal motivation
· Achieve their full potential
· Transform defiance into decision making
· Tame rebellious tendencies

The Thriving Child is essential reading for every parent and demonstrates precisely how nurturing independent thinking, and collaborating with your child rather than micro-managing them, will lead to happier, smarter and stress-free kids.
'This serious and probing look at how to give our children the right kinds of independence shows us how much power we have to ensure they can function optimally. It is a book about how to make our children more meaningfully independent, and to set ourselves free in the process.' Andrew Solomon, author of Far from the Tree
'Compelling, revolutionary, and wise, The Thriving Child empowers parents with the courage, the tools, and the mindset to reduce toxic stress, and to foster our child's capacity for resilience, success, and optimal development. Its message-that we should trust kids to have more control over their own lives-is one every parent needs to hear.' Tina Payne Bryson, PhD, co-author of The Whole Brain Child and The Yes Brain