There's just something about a woman. No matter how savvy, how successful, how independent and confident, no matter how many times she's trusted her precious biological clock to another ticking time bomb, or just another attractive cuckoo, deep in her heart of hearts she believes the Cinderella story is possible. On Becoming NaughtABimbeaux energizes your noble quest with a quantum leap from preschool to Ph.D. in learning what's really in play when girl meets boy. The process requires a bit more than a new shade of lipstick, hiking one's hemline, or cultivating a compulsion for NFL stats. After all, if you're with a man incapable of loving, it doesn't matter what perfume you wear or how you turn him on. Within these pages you will find real answers to real questions: How do I tell which men can and which men can't love before I hand over my heart? Why do I so often love the men who can't? What makes some men lay, lie, then leave? Why does settling feel like I've sold out my soul? Is it really that important to love myself first? Why do my daddy and his mommy matter? What's science got to do with it? These answers gift your entree into the mysteries of the male psyche, the biology of bonding, and the chemistry of love, placing you in a prime position to discern frog from prince before you hand over your heart to his keeping."