Man Fast: How one woman's dating detox turned into a spiritual reckoning across four continents
Autor Natasha Scriptureen Limba Engleză Paperback – 11 mai 2021
Găsim în această carte o perspectivă onestă asupra presiunii sociale de a fi parte dintr-un cuplu, abordată nu dintr-un birou confortabil, ci din experiența unei femei care a gestionat crize umanitare în Haiti sau Libia. Man Fast nu este un manual de dating, ci un jurnal al regăsirii de sine care începe în momentul în care Natasha Scripture decide să suspende căutarea partenerului ideal pentru a înțelege golul interior lăsat de pierderea tatălui său. Reținem că această „detoxifiere” relațională o poartă pe autoare prin peisaje geografice și spirituale contrastante: de la liniștea meditativă a unui ashram din sudul Indiei, până la efortul fizic într-o podgorie de pe Muntele Etna. Merită menționat modul în care autoarea navighează între umor și vulnerabilitate, transformând o criză existențială într-o aventură globală. Complementar volumului Fasting for a Life Changing Breakthrough de Liz Walwyn, unde accentul cade pe schimbarea spirituală prin post, Man Fast explorează dimensiunea identității feminine și a scopului personal în afara structurilor familiale tradiționale. Dacă Journey of an EX-Teetotaling Virgin de Fay Faron urmărește maturizarea unei tinere în anii '70 prin călătorii și relații, volumul de față propune o direcție inversă: maturizarea prin izolare asumată și sologamie. Stilul narativ este alert, reflectând experiența de jurnalist a autoarei, dar păstrează o profunzime introspectivă care invită la reflecție asupra propriilor mecanisme de adaptare la doliu și singurătate.
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Specificații
ISBN-10: 0349430942
Pagini: 288
Dimensiuni: 126 x 198 mm
Greutate: 0.04 kg
Editura: Little Brown
Colecția Piatkus
Locul publicării:London, United Kingdom
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Recomandăm această carte oricărei persoane care simte oboseala aplicațiilor de dating sau presiunea de a bifa reperele sociale tradiționale. Cititorul câștigă o perspectivă proaspătă asupra independenței, învățând că solitudinea nu este o carență, ci un spațiu de creștere. Este o lectură esențială pentru cei care traversează perioade de tranziție, oferind curajul de a căuta validarea în interior, nu în privirea celorlalți.
Descriere
'A funny, courageous, and inspiring memoir about one woman's journey into the unknown' Elisabeth Eaves, author of Wanderlust: A Love Affair with Five Continents
Any cute boys? Natasha Scripture's 64-year-old Indian mother wants to know. Once again, Natasha finds herself explaining that it is not easy to find a husband while serving as a relief worker in refugee camps, war zones and natural disaster areas.
Yet returning to New York, still reeling from the sudden death of her father, Natasha realizes that no matter how many dates she goes on, she is no closer to finding that special someone to fill the imaginary void inside her. Exasperated by her search for love, she embarks on a 'man fast', where she stops looking for a relationship and instead turns inward to explore the question at the heart of her anxiety: what is her purpose?
This soul-searching takes her deep into the wilderness: from meditating in an Ayurvedic ashram in southern India to toiling on a vineyard on Mount Etna to going on a solo-safari in southern Tanzania (where she also marries herself-yes, it's a thing).
In stepping away from the demands of modern life and societal pressure to couple up, Natasha finds a space where she allows herself to become fully present and awake: to her grief, to her identity, and to love as a mystical, ever-present force.
This is a book to inspire readers who also want to discover their truest, wildest, most empowered selves.
Recenzii
Smart, searching, and soulful, Natasha Scripture's MAN FAST is an absorbing read for any woman thinking about a change of place, or heart . . . She's an engaging guide for a spirited and spiritual journey.
Contemporary, lyrical, funny, inspirational, sometimes painful, and always intellectually rigorous. This beautifully-written book demonstrates the emotional complexities and struggles facing many modern women today, while also underscoring how women are exercising agency and continuing the solid fight against stereotypes and gender prescriptions. Natasha lends a fresh voice to the inventory of emerging feminist authors.
Utterly captivating! As an international aid worker in some of the most devastated regions, Natasha shares highlights of a journey that sent her swinging between the upper limbs of adrenaline and compassion and descending into the sacred depths of grief and self-inquiry. A vital aspect of her self-directed vision quest was the practice of letting go of the search for conventional partnership in favor of fully showing up for her own true self. Smart, funny, and deeply wise.
I was immediately absorbed by this raw, self-aware and humorous book. Natasha Scripture takes us on an emotionally charged journey, and leaves us with a greater understanding of ourselves and the world. Man Fast is a book for anyone who has worked through unmanageable grief and come out the other end.
Natasha Scripture takes us on a heartfelt quest to explore the meaning of love, in all its multi-armed wisdom and splendor. Her travels are varied and intense, but more so, her internal journey, circling around the world to find the truths within herself. Beautiful, honest, vulnerable, and compelling, Man Fast is a spiritual travel memoir for anyone who has chased after success and wondered if perhaps there was more to life and living.
Scripture reminds us of the secret we can't be told, the one we have to experience in order to know; that love cannot be found in any single sacred text or in any far off temple dripping in gold. The love we seek and eventually find is the love we start with, that's left unnoticed in our own heart. Man Fast is a must for any woman ready to find not just love but the source of love itself.
Natasha Scripture's Man Fast is as well-written and deeply felt as one could hope for in such a memoir. It digs deep and inspires me to do my own intensive spiritual work.
Natasha Scripture's quest for independence and self-definition in the face pressure conform to traditional ideas of femininity will be familiar to women everywhere. Presented with brutally honest and wry insightful, Man Fast will provoke readers to rethink their choices in the best possible ways.
Natasha writes beautifully about the awkwardness of choosing to not look for love after becoming exhausted by looking, all the while wondering if not looking for it will be exactly what brings it. Of accepting that which, deep down, feels unacceptable, of coming to peace with what one gives up by choosing one extraordinary path over another. This book made me think about quitting my job to go move to Yemen, and also to squeeze my two-year-old. Life is confusing.