This is meant to assist anyone looking to establish a covenant relationship, possibly leading to marriage. This is not just words spoken but a promise made before God and another person. Like the marriage vows, the words spoken are "I promise or I do." In the American Indian culture they cut the bottom of their arms, -the blood mixing as they do-, and placed them on top of the other person making them their "family." To whatever "level" of your words spoken can be all the difference