Is it possible we spend as much as 90% of our day focused on things we can't change? How much time to we spend trying to change or control other people while our lives remain in complete shambles? How much of our day is spent living in anger, fear and resentment towards others? What if we made a decision to completely let go of the past and make today the first day of the rest of our lives? What if today we made a decision to only focus on things we can change? Most of us have come to realize life is short, life is difficult, and we can't take anything with us when we go. Most of us have come to realize we can't change the past, we can't guarantee the future, and today is all that we have. Most of us have come to realize we've all made mistakes and today is the first day of the rest of our lives. Agnostics and atheists alike have come to realize they can throw the dice but certainly don't determine how they land. This book is about letting go of the past, focusing on things we can change and serving by way of our gifts. This book is a testimonial of what our lives were like before we let go and the changes that took place overnight the moment we did. WHAT DID WE LEARN FROM THIS BOOK? * We can't change the past * We can't guarantee the future * Today is the first day of the rest of our lives * Life is short * Life is difficult * Can't take anything with us when we go * Must let go of things we can't change * Must focus on things we can change * Serving others is the cure (addiction, depression, codependency, entitlement) * We roll the dice but don't determine how they land * We're powerless over our birth, our death and most things in between * When it comes to God...further diligence is necessary * Evidence of an intelligent designer surrounds us * We possess proprietary gifts * We must live and serve by way of these gifts * Acceptance is key to a happy life * Self-honesty leads to humility - humility leads to freedom * Smashing ego and deflation is critical (our way didn't work) * Must re-open our eyes, our hearts and our minds * When our hearts and minds connect we experience peace * When we're grateful we're rich * Today we focus on the top 10% of every situation not the bottom 10% * Ego is pride in forward...depression is pride in reverse * Depression is a luxury (have to have it good to know how bad we have it) * Good and bad dog exist in us all (the one we feed is the one that grows) * Today we've learned to love our enemies from afar * Our enemies are often our greatest teachers * Giving to get isn't giving * Routine is key to a happy and productive life * Love with conditions is control And much much more...