A person will either lead or be led or do absolutely nothing with their life. This book will take you on an exploration of "you" and help you understand whether you fit into the equation of leadership. The author uses examples of her experiences and other leaders to demonstrate how a person's strengths and past experiences shape their reactions to multiple leadership situations. The author uses her humor to demonstrate points that help explain why individuals develop into a more dominate leadership style; however, she clearly states the leadership style a person will use is based on the person/people they are leading. Like the author's first book 'Delegate or Suffocate' this book is written in the style of a mentor and is practical and easy to read. The author in this book takes the reader a step deeper into their 'why' of being a leader and discusses the challenges of growing into the fifth (5th) stage of leadership. She explains in the fifth stage leaders become mentors and grow more leaders. They learn to let go and trust completely in their associates. The author closes with the gift of 10 practical leadership tools that help direct those reading her book to success. She says "if one believes they can do it, then they will "