In a highly competitive world with everyone running for opportunities, an Alpha Female rises above all, by creating her own reality, and that's why "the woman warrior who is armed with wit and courage will be among the first to celebrate victory"(Maya Angelou). The discrimination of independent women pursuing their dreams, distorts the understanding of what a woman should be, appear or do, leading to confusion about what men really want. And, while the Publishing, Movie and Marketing Industries profit from the problem with cosmetics and romantic novels, women suffer from the pressure received from peers, relatives and relationships. Taking this reality into account, a research was conducted in order to understand why women aren't happy and which believes lead to such outcome. At the same time, results were compared with those of women that get more from life and are able to obtain the relationships they always wanted. An analysis of both situations allows a clear observation of which qualities and behaviors a woman should have, leading to the organization of the most important, based on the success of those that have applied this knowledge to change their life and conquer their dreams. Among many social myths, the following chapters will allow an understanding of why some women, independently of their looks and personality, can easily marry the best men, while others aren't able to keep their own relationships for a long time. Special skills are in demand, due to the amount of lies that have been brainwashing the female brain for the past decades. And, although books and magazines about relationships and seduction are easily found, nearly none presents a realistic and practical definition of Alpha Female. Women tend to surpass men in numbers in many social circles, meaning that they risk more if not being competitive. "Life's a Bitch; you've got to go out and kick ass" (Maya Angelou).