If you live long enough, one thing is certain. You will face major obstacles. How you choose to handle them matters. I wrote this book, because in 2010, the unthinkable happened. My infant daughter was diagnosed with a laryngeal cleft--a rare, life-threatening condition. On the heels of that revelation, my father died of cancer. There were moments I did not think I would survive all the stress and grief. I did. You Can Handle It shares the lessons and strategies I learned in the context of my journey. My hope is that someday they will help you.