Having trouble understanding the man you married? Get in the locker room Let's face it. Marriage is hard. Husbands seem to make it harder. How could they be so out of touch with the realities of home and family life? Fortunately, marriages can be revived even if the husband seems clueless. It only takes the thoughtful, committed work of one wife to alter a frustrating, flagging relationship. Wives, get in the game and score big with your man