Abused by an alcoholic father, living an adventure, facing terminal cancer.... Life wasn't destined to be dull. Though this little book is a memoir, but it's not all about me. It's about the connections we make and the unexpected things we learn from others. It's about conquering fear and finding our inner strength in the face of adversity. Everything that happens to us, good or bad, is a learning opportunity. It's up to each one of us to make the most of these moments, take charge and find deeper meaning. Happiness is a choice. Our response to hardship and challenge is a choice. We can succumb to despair and allow ourselves to be helplessly tossed about by life, or we can stand up to it. Do we cling to resentment or learn how to forgive? Do we play the victim, or be the victor? How would you choose? Includes a special section on the author's quest to understand her native ancestors' paranormal past, and personal spiritual exploration. This book was completed before terminal cancer made it impossible for the author to continue her work.