This article goes over a number of the many reasons a wife may have an affair. Women marry for love and may still love her husband but for a variety of reasons she finds herself seduced or otherwise seeks sexual gratification or stimulation from other than the man she married. The reasons a wife chooses or is seduced into an affair are many. The results of the affair will surprise many, as there are men who can handle it and men who love and crave these activities and these outnumber those who are destroyed by the activity of a cheating wife. It turns out that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.