"What if love existed but you didn't have your notification settings turned on?" That is the first question Tara-Michelle Ziniuk asks in Whatever, Iceberg. The answer is a raucous portrait of love gone wrong (and sometimes right) in the Internet age. These are poems that capture the nervous intensity of longing and heartbreak as they explore how to be in the world--as a lover of both women and men, as a mother, as an activist, and as a writer. Ziniuk knows that love and sex are messy and mixed up with our cultural perceptions of ourselves and those around us and she is fearless in documenting the tumult of expectation and loss. Readers will find here a poet whose truth-telling faces up to the grittiest details.