"What is love" is about getting married for all the wrong reasons and finding out it was not love at all. Finding out that the man you married was full of hate and anger. His Narcissistic views on life made the marriage more like a prison sentence than a marriage. Domestic Violence is a dangerous situation to be in. Please see the signs and get help for yourself and if you have kids, please get help for your kids. No one should have to live in fear.