Christianity is not a set of rule, thou must not, thou shall, but Christianity is a relationship with our creator.You are to come boldly into His presence without shame, quilt, condemnation or expecting Him to punish you. (Luke 16:16) Jesus came to fulfill all of the law. All your punishment for all your sin past, present and future has been put on Jesus. (Col 2:14-15)The church needs to know that Christianity is about a relationship not a set of rules, when you are in a relationship you will be empowered NOT to sin.