Why are men so afraid of showing their feelings? What scares them about commitment? With the same practical wisdom he used in Brothers, Lust and Love, the author tackles these age-old questions, shrewdly revealing secrets that every woman wants to know about her man and every man needs to know about himself. July is a frequent visitor to the UK and much in demand for speaking events in the black community. A relationship book that opens a door on the black male psyche' - Ebony'