People say they love their cars and in the same breath say they love their spouses or family members too. It's no wonder they go from relationship to relationship and marriage to marriage just like they change cars. We enjoy things, but we love people. This is the mindset that will keep us from treating people like objects and discarding them when we are done. Whenever people hear "true love," they immediately think "soulmate" because many have not fully come to understand true love. It's no secret that many who believed they had found their soulmate were sadly disappointed when it could not hold up under the pressures of life, and the relationship they thought would last forever came to an end.