Together We Are Normal is a memoir written by Kathryn Scheldt and her partner, John Dowdney. According to Frye Gaillard, writer-in-residence at the University of South Alabama, "It is the story of a love that flourished and flamed out against the turbulent, turned-on backdrop of the 1960s and 1970s, and then rekindled in a late-life second chance that many of us might envy. "Kathryn and John each share the story in their own particular voices. Searingly honest, graceful, and resonant."