In this powerful little book, Dr. Steve Ayorinde explains God¿s purpose. God designed marriage for our enjoyment and pleasure. Steve¿s teaching in this book does not contain a few random thoughts that came to him in moment of passion or merely the latest pop-psychology. God knows marriage and Steve knows God and he explains in a practical manner God¿s marvelous ways. Steve¿s explanation of the Bible¿s teachings is not for the weak or for those who lack the strength to stand up and be different. Jesus¿s teachings are always counter-cultural. One huge, transformational, counter-cultural theme (in Africa or the West) is that we must see the woman as God¿s beautiful priceless treasure to be enhanced by the husband. You don¿t seek a wife in order to have a servant. This book is a complement to his book ¿The Wise Builder¿ for wives. Steve highlights the example of Jesus which is presented as the paradigm of real love. Christian men who want great marriages¿relationships which bring real pleasure ¿ should study this book together and work as a team to obey God¿s principles.