When my wife read the book for first time she exclaimed, "I want to burn that book." I told her to read it again. When she finished the book for the second time, she said, "It is not bad. Somehow it all makes sense." Please do not burn the book . Give it another try. And if it still doesn't make sense to you, my deepest respect. The book is probably not for you, and that is absolutely fine.
The book is a paradox in itself. It contradicts our social norms and values, but at the same time brings peace and love and strengthens the family.