THE JOURNAL - The companion to the book.... During the duress of divorce, parents' heated, reactive, accusatory, and threatening words and behavior can lead to lifelong psychological trauma for children. As a parent, your words, choices, behavior, and the consequences of each, impact, affect, and teach your children by example. Split Harmony shares insights and guidance from The Ex-Factor approach based on Forgiveness, Clarity, Awareness, and Responsibility, to create a shift from an environment of chaos to compassion, to create and nurture Split Harmony for the sake of your kids.