OIDV- Officer Involved Domestic Violence- Is real and it is happening across the US. Victims of OIDV victims have the least support network of all victims of violent crimes, and, we have the highest murder rate. It's hard for one's voice to be heard when you are hiding- or dead. I have been an "invisible woman for almost 4 years. I wrote my escape story from the "underground" to inspire, educate, assist other domestic violence victims and their advocates, and to reveal the personal Armageddon that high profile victims endure to stay alive. Along my dark journey, I have included my personal experience on how to begin an exit strategy from an abusive relationship; how to save critical documentation, tips for keeping invisible and off the grid, coping skills for PTSD and trauma, and encouragement to regain your life.