This book attempts to capture the memorable and meaningful highlights of the authors journey and that of her friends and her friends friends, who have been and a few who are still in search of their soul mate! This collation of stories based on true male encounters and takes you into what I can only describe as the various corners and crevices of the "T'internet" dating scene.!!!! Oh my, it certainly opens eyes!!!!! Hold on tight to your surfboard and brace yourself for what I would guess are new experiences and insights which will hopefully guide, or at least give all those food for thought, who are on the "T'internet" dating scene, or indeed are thinking of getting involved! This book may be of interest to those also NOT involved or interested in the "T'internet dating scene as they are happily married, living with someone or have a long term relationship but under a separate roof!! Why? You may ask! Well, surprisingly or not, I was rather shocked at the number of guys who are on 'normal' and the more dodgy/riske dating websites who admit to being married or have a long term relationship, and still have a need to have a Bit On The Side (BOTS). If I were to put a figure on it, I would best guess that I am talking about 65% overall - no wonder the t'internet dating scene seems to have such a tarnished reputation!! There must be a 'drop-down' option when creating a personal profile as quite a few say that their status is "unhappily married"!!!...... so go your own ways then!! Or am I being too simplistic?? It is also surprising to see the number of guys who feel a need to expose their 'family jewels' on either or both their profile picture or live web-cams! (well I suppose this is a way of not being identified by partners!!)