This work introduces to the basics of systemic counselling and demonstrates the most important parts of counselling based on practical examples. An essential attribute of systemic counselling can be seen in the self-concept and method of work of the counsellor. He limits himself to moderating the dialogue and takes responsibility for its course but not for the contents which lie entirely in the clients? responsibility The special questioning technique lies at the centre of systemic counselling and serves to broaden the perspective, to initiate reflection and to clarify the situation. An overview over the various questions and examples are given.