If you have ever wondered why there isn't a rulebook for life you should read this. Abby has just entered a phase in her life where she finds herself asking the question we all face at some point, "How did I get here". As she looks back she realises that there was no grand plan, it was just a series events she had no control over; some good, some bad; some funny, some sad. One thing she did learn that I think we can all appreciate - Forest Gump was right! He wasn't just a sacarine filled bundle of annoynance - life is like a box of chocolates and we all know that too much will eventually make the best of us sick but it will never stop us going back for more!