Proverbs 22:6- Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he won't depart from it. Children are an inheritance from God he also say in, "Isaiah 26-3" thou will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stated on thee. Children need choices: Choices have many meaning (1) act of choosing; selection (2) Power of choosing; option. (3) That which is most excellent; the best part. (4) A sufficient number and variety to choose among; also a choice supply. So you see we have to teach them choices, and let them know whatever choice they make it is their choice, and they are responsible for their choice.