Ris was named after the opera star Ris Stevens. It was as if her mother knew that Ris was not meant to be written into the family's tragedies. In fact, from a young age Ris found a way to rise above the chaos, abuse, and molestation of her childhood, eventually escaping the weight of her family, and learning to love and believe in herself. This story is a testament to her deep determination and innate courage.