"Washington Post columnist Meghan Leahy feels your pain. Like her clients and readers, she grew weary of the endless 'shoulds' of modern parenting--along with the simplistic rules and advice that often hurt more than help. Filled with insights based on child development and hard-won lessons in the trenches, this honest guide presents a new approach, offering permission to practice imperfect parenting with a strong dose of common sense, empathy, and laughter. You'll gain perspective on trusting your gut, picking your battles, and when to question what's 'normal' (as opposed to what works best for your child)"--