For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the Gospel of His Son that without ceasing I make mention of you always in my prayers. (Romans 1:9)Start praying for your family, church and community and begin expressing your love for them. Forgive any hurts done to you and watch the miracles that will take place because of your prayers. God has an undying love for His people so don't grieve the Holy Spirit with a mean and hateful spirit. Learn to communicate with God through prayer and intercede for others, other than yourself.