When it comes to your sex life, do you ever ask yourself, "What's wrong with me? Am I broken?" You're not alone. So many women have felt that way. But not for the reasons you think. This book explores why women have actually struggled sexually, helping you to realize where these feelings of brokenness originated. Having this awareness will open you to the possibilities of creating a sex life that works for you. Does the idea of having a sex life that works for you seem unattainable? When you've spent years battling your body image, dismissing sexual advances from your partner, and even praying that not another person touches you today, you're primed to resist and resent sex. And then it becomes just another thing on your never-ending to-do list. The stories that Courtney Boyer shares in Not Tonight, Honey will have you wondering if she wrote this book about you. The insight and wisdom in these pages will encourage you to look at your sex life differently. Courtney Boyer provides readers with practical solutions, including how to establish a pleasure practice, aimed at increasing sexual satisfaction, as well as specific tools that will allow you to have a different conversation about sex and pleasure with yourself, your partner, and even your children. This book will leave you feeling empowered to work towards change and help you realize that you are allowed to ask for what you want inside and outside of the bedroom.