In this day and age, it's easy to find sex anywhere without any meaningful bond. It's common and many do it because sex can be so easily separated from love or emotion. It's as if sex has become just a mechanical act in order to get to a climax. In this modern age of technology, you just get on the computer and "Ordering In" so to speak. If that's what you want, and that's all your in it for, great. For many men this works just fine, sex is very enjoyable and convenient. The idea of a meaningful bond is of no importance or simply forgotten. However, in the sexual arena of the BD/SM lifestyle there's much more that goes into it then a simple staged scene or mechanical act. I'm talking about something more meaningful, "Male bonding at its deepest levels." The type of bonding that carries the values and traditions of the past. These are life changing experiences that bring men closer and make them stronger. If you chose this book in the hope of finding some answers then you're in the right place. For every book or place that you look always has a golden nugget of wisdom hidden somewhere inside. With that in mind I'm going to tell you what you're not going to find. If you're looking for some kind of "how-to" book about how to set up your own dungeon or how to use some easy come-on lines to score a date then you may want to keep looking. This book explains the deep core issues of male bonding in the BD/SM fetish setting. It promotes a deeper life experience for those who march to the beat of a different drummer.