Many things can happen in a blended family. It is a good idea to keep a record of things and even review them later to see how you and your blended family are progressing. The Notes Minder can help with family discussions and reflections, and if needs be and the family might need to see a Therapist, then these notes will be quite helpful. Use the Notes Minder to keep track, organise and monitor all the important events, dates and things to do in your blended family. Record: - Date What happened today? How do I feel about what happened? In hindsight, what would I do differently? Things to do Notes. Stepmoms keep things together."