As with anything that is truly worthwhile, marriage is a long-term project. Sometimes things roll smoothly, and sometimes they don't. Marriage Moats assures couples that they are not alone in needing to work to build and maintain their marriage. This book uses everyday stories and examples to encourage husbands and wives to believe in themselves and in their relationship. It assures couples that ups and downs are completely normal, and that needing some help, advice, perspective and support now and then is part of the journey. John and Lori Odhner began their marriage ministry in 1988. Together they manage the www.caringformarriage.org website and put out a monthly newsletter. Lori writes daily e-mails called Marriage Moats intended to support people who value marriage. This book is a collection of her most popular "moats."