When a husband does not deal with the lack of sex due to his low libido, issues surface that the wife and husband cannot ignore. The issues must be faced and directly dealt with. Why? Because when the husband is not having sex with his wife, questions will arise down the road, and if not answered, will cause more issues, and not just for the man but to his marriage as well. Wives, read the headline Testosterone promotes sex drive. No sex drive and you have no full man. You can't be in that place and expect it all to work. The sex drive must live and breathe. And husbands, when you let it die for mental, physical, or spiritual needs, you only succumb to your days on the earth.