MANCOLOGY What is MANCOLOGY? A lot of women have probably asked me this very question many times. Let me start by saying that after you begin reading this, many people will say that this is day one of training day. Sit back and get comfortable with me and let's explore the mind of how the species of men think or seem to view life. I know that many women find themselves backed into a corner or feel sometimes like the advice that they receive from a home girl will help them to understand what they're doing wrong in their relationships. Sometimes talking can help, but wouldn't you love to know what a man means exactly when he says or does certain things? For many years, I've made it my business to take the time to listen, be very observant and analytical when it came to my relationships. I did this so much that it became hard for me to become an equal in the relationship. Instead, my mate became the contender.