Learning to Love your Spouse. A book for Husbands and Wives. Prayer to God and Couples Therapy if you take time to Pray and Read this book. We all say "For better or worse" but do we really understand what it is we are saying? We need to know the art of Making Love Not War." Sometimes we are concerned with living in our spouses shoes but we need to live in our own shoes. Learning to love gives you an overcoming life. Yes, after all these years I am Still So In Love.