The Secrets to Great Sex Long Time Coming will inspire you to improve your sex life in order to take your sexual experience to the next level. Having spent decades studying sexual secrets from the Far East, Victor Gold brings ancient wisdom and modern science together to create better and more fulfilling sex lives for men (and their partners). Great sex isn't about performing, doing it right, or being perfect. Great sex is about the connection and energy you share with your partner, and the key to having better and more passionate sex is learning to build this connection and energy, starting with you first. The first little-known sexual secret is that, with practice, you can learn to prolong your orgasm for an hour, or more, by hovering indefinitely in the tiny, ecstatic space, right on the cutting edge of orgasm, just before your climax would occur. Though it may seem counter-intuitive, avoiding the conventional genital orgasm is the fundamental bedroom skill for prolonging your orgasm. Most men have been burdened by their addiction to coming. In fact, this book exposes the most destructive male sexual myth, namely, that a man's best and most enjoyable option in sex is having the most explosive genital release possible. It's not! What most men are still not aware of is that a man's genital release is a negative phenomenon. When men come, unlike women, they lose vital life force energy. This accounts for the loss of their erection, the loss of sexual desire and their sleepiness after sex. To prevent energy loss, accomplished male lovers employ the art of seminal retention. They master special "sexercises" that tone and develop the sex muscles that prevent unwanted male ejaculations. There is no loss of sexual pleasure since men can substitute multiple, full-body orgasms for ejaculation. Once you experience it you'll never want to go back to the "old way" of having sex! It takes keen awareness and discipline to remain in a highly aroused state, close to the orgasmic release point without coming. The little-known sexual secret of foregoing your explosive climax in favor of something more profound is the basis of the one-hour orgasm. The second sexual secret revelation is that once you have successfully generated and contained orgasmic energy, you can learn to raise your sexual pleasure by focusing your attention on your heart center. Dynamic lovemaking connects the heart and the genitals. Many women complain that their male lovers think too much with their penis. These women seek more of a heart-felt presence from their men. Awakening the heart-genital connection will accomplish this by altering the sexual dynamic between partners. Now, your sexual exchange will be more loving, more intimate, and more focused on sharing affection. By successfully employing these tactics you will gain the ability to sexually satisfy yourself and your partner on a whole new level. You will be able to make love more often, for extended periods, and resume as often as you like. You will learn to come away from a sexual exchange feeling inspired and lifted up rather than tired and drained.