Vida is not sure why she isn't in a mental institution after all of the abuse that has come her way, but she's so happy that she is a survivor Life throws some curve balls, but she has to admit that many bad experiences were from her own poor choices. She refers to these as her comedy of errors. Of course, most of the time, she wasn't laughing Vida hopes that by sharing her abusive situations with others and letting them know that she has gone on to a happier life, they may find hope and know that they, too, can find peace, love and happiness. L'Chaim To life