People are defined very often by their bad decisions. In this book Sasha challenges her readers to dig deeper and to ask the questions of WHY? It is in the why we understand that there are a number of factors that shape and colour decisions people make. Hopefully, the reader will come away with a little more grace for people who are living the consequences of their bad decisions and for those who have made bad decisions to own it without shame in order to find healing and true selves under the rubble of all the attending consequences. Sasha takes us on a journey into the woman she was, is and is becoming from some of her life shaping trauma. She uses accessible language almost in a verandah conversation tone, which makes it an easy read for some very heavy themes: sexual assault, molestation, teenage pregnancy, divorce, domestic violence and social stratification.