Never married. A single mom, since December 15th, 1997. As an introverted woman, I truly believe that I literally live a mysterious life even to those who are close to me. I am writing this book not to be famous, not to be rich or anything close to that. However, there are enigmas that I kept inside and would like them to be known to the curious and loved ones before my passing. In addition, I would like to have a chance to thank my love ones for their assistance all through my existence. Lastly, writing this memoir will satisfy one of my very first real goals in life, letting others know about my splendid mother. Please stop judging others because there is always a valid reason why some of us choose a certain lifestyle. Each one of us carries our own distresses and problems differently so accept others individuality and move on to what is important to you According to a bible proverb, "A tree that can bend with the wind is more likely to survive a storm". Like that tree, I learn to "bend" with changes over which I have little or no control. My philosophy is to accept reality rather than to let negative thoughts overwhelm me.