For anyone who feels they just won't make in life or work. This is a book to show that anything is possible. When Kathy embarks on her quest for a stable personal and work life little did she know the audacious and plaguing obstacles that she would face. The book shows how these situations made her into a stronger person at home and professionally. This is something she wants to portray to others who always tell her, "You just have no idea." Oh yes she does! She wants to personally thank all the people that have hurt her in so many ways as ultimately their abuse formulated this book. She has "lightened" up the tone in the book with nonchalant humor here and there as she just had to. Otherwise it wouldn't seem significant anymore. Kathy has been in human resources for over 27 years and throughout her 40 years in various careers she has found that nothing is a surprise anymore. Enjoy the book folks!