There has never been a more insecure parenting generation than the one we have today. The reason? We are asking the wrong questions. We are discussing the wrong things. And we are adapting in the wrong ways. Though we can't stop the evolution of the teenager society, we can adapt and outsmart it. We can become relevant in the lives of our kids. We can become their primary influence. And we can experience peace and joy with our kids while facing the intimidating nuances of the modern generation. But success won't be found in becoming social media stalkers or bringing in more rules. It will be found in tapping into the God-given skills we all have within us as parents. It's time to replace anxiety with hope; fear with confidence. It's time to install a parenting update that will bring peace and joy to the family. Let's do this.