Do you want to avoid exploitation, scams, hurt and heartache when dating an immigrant? Finally, a book of condensed comprisal that shines light on the often silent, systemic problem of Immigration marriage fraud - that is often overlooked and over shadowed by other areas of interest pertaining to Immigrants such as Migration, Immigration Reform and Terrorism. Victims of Immigration Marriage Fraud are often too hurt, ashamed, embarrassed or angry to have realized that there were behavioral cues that probably were exhibited from the inception of their relationship that were over looked. This book will serve as your guide to impart Immigrant Intelligent and help you identify the signs; symptomatic behavioral cues that will help you gauge a relationship of exploitation for Immigration purposes. You'll learn how about the 4 C's: choice, chance, change and control and how to apply the 4 C's when meeting, dating in places of opportunity. Become better not bitter. Go from victim to victor, without checking into the Heart Break Hotel.