Who am I? What is my real Identity? What would it be like to be really me instead of this costume I put on daily? Some of the most important questions ever asked by human beings. Questions indeed, that all of us need to address and find meaningful answers for. There are many answers out there, most of which are misleading, discouraging and fail to deliver us from a life-long search for the answers. Author, Raymond Slade however, surprises us with the idea that there is another question that needs to be answered first. What am I? Until we discover this, we will never be content with our beliefs about who we are. In this clear presentation, we find a totally new way of answering these questions. Blinded by myths and misunderstandings, the author himself struggled with the most widely-used tool for evaluating these questions. He identified the common mistakes in the popular beliefs and set out to find relevant, accurate and more meaningful ways to see ourselves. After much research and thanks to some break-through moments, the way forward became clear. Supported with numerous illustrations, and based on Christian understandings, removed from religion, we discover in this work, a unique explanation as to how Identity is not something we have to create but has been determined for us a long time ago. Consequently, we find that a correct understanding of Identity provides for us a sound framework upon which to explore our unique self. Applying these new-found approaches, the author began utilizing these ideas in his work as a counsellor, noticing that clients not only readily related to them but embraced the simple concepts and were easily able to apply them in their own lives. If you have ever wondered what and who you really are and have been trying to find the elusive answers to these questions, this book will provide easy to understand guidance that will bring a degree of fulfillment, satisfaction and enjoyment not found in any other approach. You can't know who you are until you know what you are.