It appears as if single women have agreed to respond with the phrase, "I'm Single by Choice" as politically correct jargon when met with the question, "Why are you single?" There is an understanding that this is, in fact, an answer to the question, but for most it is definitely not a truthful answer. There are many dating lies that women tell themselves including: "I want to focus on living my dreams " "Guys are superficial." "I only want sex." "There are no good guys out there." These lies are masking the reality of an unfulfilled desire to have a mate. Facing the truth can be tough. Fortunately, this book is tough love and if you hang in there, you will be better equipped to find that special someone and make those long-cherished dreams come true.