This little book is the third book I have written. However, it is the most personal and the most heart wrenching ever. It took a lot of weepy hours to put it together. It is my life. It is not expert advice to anyone. It is simply my feelings about how love progresses, instead of being instantaneous. In order for something to grow, it must be nurtured. Nurturing comes from making decisions together, and respecting each other's rights to their opinion. It isn't always easy but the effort is worth it when you find yourself truly in love with another person.