Humans are interconnected with the universe and with each other in many, very-complex ways. As a result, we cannot hate another and not be hating a part of ourselves. Almost all of society teaches us to live in the many states of the Set of thoughts and emotions called Fear, however, and in those states we often choose to hate those who do hateful things - it seems to be the logical thing to do. Yet, it is wrong in so many ways. Our Destiny is to live in the much more powerful states of the Set of thoughts and emotions called Love and Above (often short-formed in my writing as just Love). When we fully live in Love, we choose to send Love-like thoughts and emotions to everyone, including those who have done hateful things. This effectively reduces their ability to continue to be hateful and builds our ability to Love more powerfully - a win-win situation indeed. This universe is very non-linear - but almost none of us have been told this fact. Even fewer of us understand what that means and why this give those who live in Love-based ways so much power to do good. A single thought, emotion, or action performed in Love can compensate for hundreds of thousands (even millions) of deeply Fear-based thoughts, emotions and deeds. There are many reasons why we have not been told about this, but most of them are driven by the parts of societies which are controlled by those who have done hateful things to get their power; or even by some who have achieved their wealth through awful deeds. Although the Ancient philosophers and spiritual teachers have told us that we are not just Energy/matter beings, but are rather spiritual beings having human experiences, most of society now teaches us that there is no such thing as spirit (another name for Information) and that we are just accidental beings in a universe without purpose. This sort of teaching is deeply false, but is actively taught by most of our press - they are paid to do so and are doing much too good a job at disseminating these falsehoods. Leading edge Science, at both the level of the universe and also at the smallest zones of the sub-atomic field, is now building a case for this universe being essentially one of Information first. The Information came before Energy and the Energy came before its special form that we call matter. The correct way of looking at this universe is that it is essentially a universe of Pure Information and that, in a total rewrite of what we had been incorrectly taught, Information precedes both Energy and matter, guiding Energy/matter towards life-probable outcomes; from the huge array of random possibilities that could not result in life. We therefore have humans who are recently learning just how all of this has evolved to produce human beings who can start to understand the wonder of it all; then live accordingly. We are, in essence, spiritual beings having human experiences and they help us learn how to become much more Love-focused. It is totally illogical for Love-centered beings to send out Fear-based actions (thoughts, emotions and physical acts) to anyone; even those who have done terrible things because they live so deeply in the hopeless states of Fear. What we can do, instead, is send them Love and reduce the depth of their Fear, reducing their inclination to do hateful things. In this generous universe, we get back more than we send out - so that we become more powerfully loving and they become less deeply hopeless. This is the correct way to deal with those who have sinned. Finally, we can even choose to quit hating the hateful deed.