One Size Learning Does Not Fit All Children Growing and Learning is based on the idea that each of us learns in our own unique way, at our own special pace. Most learning programs are set out in a sequential, rigid pattern and the child must learn in that pattern and at the rate required to be on level or to not "get behind." Growing and Learning requires that the program be fitted to the child not the child fitted to the program. Your child will be learning the skills and information at his own pace and in his own best learning pattern. Your child, and not the program, will be at the center of the learning process.