Marriage rates are plummeting, even though the number of marriage-minded people remains high. Why has marriage become so elusive-so difficult to do-so hard to achieve? In this book, Dr. David Upham identifies the main cause: men and women have forgotten how to engage in the mutual attraction necessary for marriage. Drawing from popular culture, personal experience, literature, history, science, philosophy, and above all, common sense, he explains with candor and humor the forgotten basic truths of mutual attraction-both why we've forgotten and what we've forgotten. But Getting Hitched doesn't leave marriage-minded men and women without a game plan: it provides a step-by-step guide to help you restore and build your confidence and achieve your relationship goals. If marriage is on your mind, these time-honored and battle-tested truths will help you get there.