It only takes 8 simple steps to draw the ideal partner into your life. In this book, psychotherapist Karin Heinitz sets outs these 8 steps in a way that has proved effective for all that have followed them. Out of her long experience as a therapist, she begins by addressing the many common beliefs, fears and anxieties that so often come in the way of people finding, entering or maintaining relationships - or else make them think they will never find a partner who is right for them. The 8 steps then offer a unique method of 'embodied visualisation' - one which will allow you not only to discover and visualise the type of partner you really want but sense the reality and presence of that ideal partner in a felt, bodily way - even before meeting them. The book goes on to offer a new understanding of the pitfalls surrounding relationships and the conflicts that may arise in them - showing how these can be circumvented and overcome. It concludes with an appendix, written by psychologist and philosopher Peter Wilberg, summarising 30 key insights into relating and relationships in general that can be of value to all.